Why We Give
I have a full-time job as a philanthropist. My job is to daily make the ask; acquire the gift. I solicit support to create positive change in the community by sharing a message. While I do offer donors an experience, I do not offer a parade. Parties are not by biggest selling point. What is often the most rewarding part of my job is often the hardest-- connecting donors to their potential for impact.
Perhaps one of my favorite giving stories is one told by Ashley Lemieux on her Instagram feed. Ashley explains why she gave below.
After I chose my candy, I looked at him and asked, "can I share a tip with you? I'm buying all this chocolate, and I don't even like chocolate all that much. I don't care about buying the candy bars. What I do care about is you, and you earning enough money to be able to play football. So, the next time somebody walks up here don't sell them the candy, ask them if they'd like to help you earn money to play football this season, and then tell them they can do that by purchasing your candy."
I have often been told, “I don’t just want to write a check,” and through the process I have learned it is not always about the money. In a fair amount of cases, it is not even about receiving a gift. This exchange is about establishing a relationship where the giver becomes a hero. Therein lies the magic that is invisible, but I believe this joy is more important than a prized present.
I grew up in a family where giving was important. My father believed we should give back 10% of our income. Even if we had scarcity, during our season of giving my family was often most blessed. It is funny how we create more for everyone when we focus on others. Today, I see a decline in giving especially in our younger generation.
Philanthropy Today recently wrote, “55% of young adults have never heard of Giving Tuesday,” the national day of giving happening this week. Recent studies have shown that the majority of Americans believe they give more or the same amount as their peers. However, in reality, 72% of the population are not listed in the giving average. Statistics say the average annual household gift of $2,600 is roughly 3.7% of an income. Often during the holiday hustle and bustle we get overwhelmed with gifts. This year, I encourage you to find a cause or charity you are passionate about.
Give back!
Give something that can’t be sold. Give your time, something most personal, or materials significant to a cause.
Make a point to have the Holidays be about OTHERS.
December 3 is Giving Tuesday—close this year off with an impact on others in your community.
If you are looking for a good cause in Louisville or your hometown search out local non-profits you are passionate about to give to.
I truly think giving is a selfless act is honorable beyond words or recognition. The giver becomes a hero, a selfless leader that sees beyond the existing to bring a vision to life. For inspiration on telling your story, and writing a different narrative see @ashleyklemieux on instagram and follow/click this link to her post on giving.
